Meps kitty calling for birds. Yes, he's sitting beside the birdseed, I think he thinks, he's hiding...I consider myself a fairly new author, a babe in the world of publishing, if you will.
I’ve had a tad bit of success, combined with lots of luck. I’ve managed to land an amazing editor, and have two books published with Ellora’s Cave. One is in print, which as we all know, though it is a wonderful experience to hold YOUR book in your hands, does not make you a millionaire overnight. Hell, far from it.
Yet, if it hadn’t been for the kindness of fellow authors, I know I would not be where I am today.
So, this little bit of advice is to all of the ‘New’ authors out there in the industry.
1.) ASKYes, just ask. Don’t be afraid to ask someone a question. Most romance writers that I’ve met along the way will give you more than a moment of their time to answer questions. Don’t feel like you’re bothering someone or that you are ‘stupid’ for asking a simple question.
FB, WIP, HEA. Do you know what this means? If so, great. If not, just ask because I’m here to tell you that everyone started at the bottom, everyone had to learn their craft and hone their skills and knowledge. There’s always an’ inside’ language, small nuances of every world that one must learn to communicate with those who chose to dwell in that world.
Examples of this are the military, law enforcement, hell, the culture of the cyber world. Writers are no different, so remember, just ask.
2). ConfidenceDon’t put yourself down, don’t belittle yourself or your work. People, this is huge! Honestly, whether you write or not, the world will continue but you must believe in yourself and have the balls to say so.
There’s only one person who should matter, and that’s you. If you stopped writing today, who would care? Honestly. Make that commitment to yourself. Be confident in your decision to write, because the first person who has to believe in your work is you. You won’t sell to an editor or an agent until you believe in your abilities.
3.) Seek out your peersYes, this means other writers. Are you a member of a loop, but lurk in the background without interacting? Bad, bad, bad.
I can’t stress enough how much I’ve learned by watching, listening, and communicating with other authors. I was finally able to build up the courage to create my own blog after reading other authors blogs and deciding that hey, I could do this. So, I asked questions, gathered ideas, and bam—I had a blog.
I have two very dear writer friends who I’m in daily contact with. Hell, I jones if I don’t talk to them every day, multiple times…it’s sad really. But, this interaction has created a very informal critique group. Without their support, kind encouragement, and yes, even the whip from the dominatrix of the word, I would not have continued working on my vampire novel. I may have given up when the going got tough, when it wasn’t so easy to make it over those humps and I had to dig my feet into the dirt and climb.
Yes, everyone has doubts. That little voice inside your head that tells you that you suck. Has you asking yourself, “What the hell was I thinking?”
Declaring, “I’m not a writer.”
I’m a mother. I’m a sister. I’m a daughter. I’m a housewife or a professional.
Wipe those thoughts out of your head and get on the bandwagon. Yes, loops can take a bit of your time, but having a support system is crucial to making it through those doubts, even blowing them away with a kick-ass manuscript.
Can you do it all alone? Sure, but why do that when you can open yourself to another world. Make friends, ask questions, and take a bit of advice. If you can use it, fine, if not, toss it away.
But, my friends and fellow ‘newbies’, don’t fear. You are not alone.
Taylor